A friend recently asked me why I didn’t put together a step-by step logistical package of what I believe it takes to be successful. I had to stop and think for a while why it was that I couldn’t just give people a list of the 3 things they can do to make their life better this year. I had to pause for a minute, because it actually sounded like a decent blog post, but something about the idea didn’t sit right with me.
Finally, I figured out what I was trying to explain.
It’s not that people aren’t educated enough to be able to turn their life around. It’s not that they can’t figure out how to lose weight or start their own business on the side. If you’re reading this, it means you have access to an internet connection, which is really all you need to have both the information you need and the access to the people you need to be involved in your plan.
It’s not that people aren’t smart enough. It really only takes a reasonable amount of intelligence, a level that I can guarantee pretty much everyone reading this blog right now already possesses. As proof I offer this: everyone knows someone who has achieved more than they have, who wasn’t nearly as bright. There are even books called “The Idiot Millionaire” and “The Millionaire Moron” where the authors specifically talk about how they were able to achieve success despite the fact they weren’t the sharpest tools in the woodshed.
No, it’s not that people aren’t smart enough or aren’t educated enough, or don’t have access to the right resources. That’s like saying that if people just knew that cigarettes gave you lung cancer and a shortened life, they wouldn’t smoke. New legislation puts bigger and bigger warnings on the packages. You think anyone’s quitting after picking up a pack that reads “Smoking cigarettes may cause lung cancer”? Not likely.
So if it’s not lack of smarts or lack of the correct information why is it that people don’t do more with their lives? Why don’t people lose weight, eat better, take control of their careers, watch less TV, and generally be awesome? It’s that people don’t let their minds believe they can do it. It sounds hokey, like the “if you believe you can achieve” after school specials, but that really is what makes the difference between those that do great things and those that do not.
As I told my friend, it’s not that people don’t know how or why they should do things. It’s that they allow their own mental blocks to keep them from moving forward. It’s not that people can’t accomplish things if they try – it’s that they don’t try. It’s not that they can’t finish a project they set their mind to, it’s that they never start.
If you read the “Who Are We?” page, you know that we didn’t coin the phrase “Mastermind Group.” We stole the idea from people who lived and died long ago, and we’ve just referred to ourselves as a mastermind group for so long that I had to be reminded what was at the root of that term. Master. Mind. Mastering your mind is all we need to do. It’s not a “figure out the process” group or an “educate each other” group. It’s all about gaining mastery over the one thing that stands between us and the lives of our dreams: our minds.
You’re good enough, and you’re smart enough, and with a little work on your part, people will like you. The life of your dreams is all within your reach. If you want to change your life, you must change your mind.